Once In a Lifetime by Elektra Porzel
We have been hearing this phrase ‘once in our lifetime’ more often lately. This event, these climate activities…are so out of our normal experience…they are ‘once in our lifetime’ occurrences.
So, what are these ‘once in a lifetime’ events occurring now? Is it the climate calamities that are regularly occurring…fires, floods, heat waves? Yes. Is it the actions of the present President and his team? Yes. Is it the state of our economy? Yes. Is it the wars now engulfing the USA, Ukraine, and Iran? Yes. Is it the rise of communicable diseases in the US? Yes. Is it the abandonment of our allies? Yes. Is it the abandonment of programs that had served the poorer peoples of the earth with alliances and health support? Yes. Is it the planets moving into a different alignment that portends a different future? Yes.
The next question is ‘why’ we are having all these ‘once in a lifetime’ happenings now? Some are due to the political regime that is presently in charge of the USA. Some are due to the world’s ignoring the climate imbalances over the last 30 years. Some may indeed be a cumulative effect of human beings ignoring their capability to impact the creation of a world that they want to live in. It may be a reckoning in the stars.
What is most important is what are we doing to lessen these ‘once in a lifetime’ occurrences? At the larger level of interactions in the USA, the answer is supporting the courts; contact our representatives to require them to act on our behalf and to vote for candidates who act on behalf of all the people.
On the individual level, it may come down to each of us working to create a world where ‘what is life-enhancing for all’ is established and flourishes. Yes, each of us impacts the whole. We know that this is an interrelated world. Each of us impacts others. Group action impacts the whole. Individual actions impact the interrelationships with others. Our conversations with others build our listening skills which build our capacity to co-create communities that work for all. What is rising occurs while something else is dying. What is dying is the power of billionaires. What is dying is the ignorance of the people about our capacity to change the world into a world where all are cared for.
What is rising? It is our capacity to shift our thinking and our actions into life-enhancing ones. Our brains are malleable and the neuronal structures that connect negative thoughts and words can be weakened by purposefully allowing only life-enhancing positive words to leave our mouths. Let’s start with our own habits and ways of interacting with others. Do you allow yourself to think life-defeating thoughts about yourself or others? What percentage of your thinking, and/or your feelings are negative or life-defeating? Instead, focus on letting life-enhancing thoughts dominate your mind. Put aside the negative, life-defeating thoughts whether that thought is about yourself or about another person or group. How do we do that? My experience is that I just stop every time that I notice that a negative thought leaves my mouth or mind. ‘No, I take that back.’ Do it visually, shrug that assumption off, the belief off literally. Wipe it off your shoulders.
In addition to stopping the negative life-defeating thinking, I find that the most effective action is to create language/ a picture of what I do want in my life and in how I want to live my life. We all have used intentions and vision boards. I find the Creation Exercises from the Language of Creation are the most powerful tools that I use to design the life that I crave to exist for myself and for others. Check out www.loc-institute.com to learn more about the Templates of the Language of Creation and how to write your Creation Exercise about what you crave and what you crave being.
What do you want to be different about your relationships? Do you want to talk more with family or friends? Then ask them to talk with you whether it is over a meal, or instead of watching TV or their phones. Go for a walk with them and talk as you walk. Do you want to do activities with them? Then ask them what they want to do and create an activity that you both want to do.
Focus on being an active part of creating communities that serve all our residents. Volunteer…somewhere for some effort that helps others …the schools, scouts, neighborhood cleanup, food banks. Working with others to care for others brings us viscerally closer to experiencing others as more like us than different from us.
Ever smile at someone and see them light up? Ever stop to help someone who dropped something? Reaching out to others takes a small effort on our part and creates stronger bonds of connection with others.
Focus on having conversations with others where you deeply listen to their experience and viewpoints. Then allow them to hear your experiences and viewpoints. In the exchange you will probably find common ground. That common ground will build future willingness to co-create structures and systems that serve all.
Can each of us lessen our life-defeating impact on ourselves, our families, and our communities? Yes! Can each of us can build more life-enhancing thinking, acting and being in our lives? Yes!
How many more ‘once in a lifetime’ events can we take in this lifetime? When do we wiggle out of our chairs and start standing for something instead of bemoaning the state of things? It’s time to let our old habits fall away and actively engage with ourselves and our fellow community members. Let’s make the new persona that we choose to live to be the more of this lifetime not a one time event!!!
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